Journey of a Swingle guy

Recently my GFWB (GirlFriend With Benefits!) & I went out to dinner with a newbie couple that attended one of our parties…

Lovely people – the conversation flowed easily, and the laughter was raucous, and the flirting was apparent…

I was pontificating  – as I often do – estoling the many benefits of the Lifestyle – and how much it had improved my life…

A thought popped into my head (well – there IS plenty of room in there!😊😅) and I think I may have stumbled onto if not THE key to the Swinging lifestyle – but at least A main component…

The ability to Laugh when Naked!

When you stop & think about it – it makes perfect sense!!

Apart from with your own partner – where else can you feel comfortable enough to laugh & be silly when you’re naked with another human? If you pick up someone at a pub or other vanilla-type venue – there’s always something holding you back from being your genuine, honest self… be it ego or fear of judgement or just plain trying to impress your partner…

Its only really when you feel comfortable in the lifestyle where those things can be ignored  – for me anyway..

This specifically stems from a par ty held by good friends just after Easter…

At some stage of the night,  I looked into one of the playrooms and was met with a curious site – a naked couple on the bed, at it hammer & tongs as is there want, in doggy-style…

What made this particular scene memorable was that the man was wearing a ridiculous rabbit-type hat with floppy ears, which popped up and down with each thrust!!!

The scene was just so ridiculous!

People enjoying each other’s body, feeling relaxed & comfortable enough to be silly while doing it…

This is the beauty of the Lifestyle  – feeling free to be silly – to be sexy – to be whatever you want to!!! And to be able to surround yourself with people who not only won’t judge you – but celebrate you for who you are! No matter if you don’t fit into societies narrow guidelines. 

The ability to walk into a room of relative strangers,  and feel comfortable and safe enough to undress yourself both physically & emotionally is, for me, one of the main reasons I love this lifestyle, and has allowed me to grow so much as a person…

And! Boobies!!!

Let’s not forget them – lovely, jumbly boobies of all shapes, sizes & colours!!!