Journey of a Swingle guy

Just me, writing about stuff I'm learning…

Category: Swingers

  • Consent is a simple concept… No means no, right? ‘No’ is a complete sentence… That’s something that I’ve said more than once – and meant it each time… But it goes deeper than that… Consent begins before words and continues through the scene until the end! As someone who helps organises Swingers parties Consent is…

  • Recently my GFWB (GirlFriend With Benefits!) & I went out to dinner with a newbie couple that attended one of our parties… Lovely people – the conversation flowed easily, and the laughter was raucous, and the flirting was apparent… I was pontificating  – as I often do – estoling the many benefits of the Lifestyle…

  • Many years ago, when I was still married, I got a job managing an Adult Shop in Southport, on the Gold Coast.. My father knew the owners of the store, and they were looking for a man to work the counter with Schoolies coming up… so, I got a job in SexyLand (not the real…

  • This one’s going to be a bit of fun…I’m going to share some of the interesting & funny things that I’ve seen & done in the short time I’ve been in the lifestyle… All of these stories are 100% true – obviously names etc have been changed to protect the not-so-innocent!! 😊 So my very…

  • There were certain things I was brought up to believe as absolute truths… There were 2 genders… Work hard, be honest and keep to yourself and you will succeed… And probably most importantly of all – you aren’t complete as a person until you find “THE ONE”!!! The person that completes you.. Your ‘Other Half’…

  • Having become single later in my life, and finding this lifestyle, one thing that continually frustrates me is the assumption that women become less attractive as they get older… I have recently become to realise – not having lived as a woman – that by the time a lady reaches her 50’s, she’s been subjected…