Journey of a Swingle guy

Just me, writing about stuff I'm learning…

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Swingle man. 55 yrs, recently (4 yrs) divorced & looking at life anew… Finding my way through the lifestyle & the world of kink, discovering new things about myself & the world all the time!

Category: Swinging

  • To Kink, or not to Kink…

    Its only been relatively recently that I’ve discovered (or unearthed) my fondness & interest for the kinkier side of the lifestyle… During my 30yr marriage I was very plain & vanilla – 2 sexual positions – nothing more adventurous than an a disastrous attempt to use body sauce in bed – (PUT A TOWEL DOWN…

  • Consent…The A, B, Cs….

    Consent is a simple concept… No means no, right? ‘No’ is a complete sentence… That’s something that I’ve said more than once – and meant it each time… But it goes deeper than that… Consent begins before words and continues through the scene until the end! As someone who helps organises Swingers parties Consent is…

  • Laughing when Naked

    Recently my GFWB (GirlFriend With Benefits!) & I went out to dinner with a newbie couple that attended one of our parties… Lovely people – the conversation flowed easily, and the laughter was raucous, and the flirting was apparent… I was pontificating  – as I often do – estoling the many benefits of the Lifestyle…

  • ADVENTURES IN SEXYLAND…

    Many years ago, when I was still married, I got a job managing an Adult Shop in Southport, on the Gold Coast.. My father knew the owners of the store, and they were looking for a man to work the counter with Schoolies coming up… so, I got a job in SexyLand (not the real…