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  • I’m part of a group that hosts Swingers’ Parties… It can be a bit of work, and things don’t always go as planned – (more on that later!) but one thing I’ve started noticing more & more is dress standards – particularly the difference between men & women… Obviously,  not everyone is the same –…

  • There were certain things I was brought up to believe as absolute truths… There were 2 genders… Work hard, be honest and keep to yourself and you will succeed… And probably most importantly of all – you aren’t complete as a person until you find “THE ONE”!!! The person that completes you.. Your ‘Other Half’…

  • I recently passed a milestone – 4 years since I attended my 1st ever Swingers Party… Which meant it was about 4 & a half years, roughly, since I discovered the lifestyle… I’ve been thinking of what I have learned in that time – and how its changed the way I look at life… Before…

  • Australia Day 2022 was my first ever, proper Swingers Party… I’d been to a few Meet & Greets at pubs, and an impromptu party after one such Munch… But a proper, honest to God Swingers’ Party? Well, I never!!! A friend of mine, who I shall call Deb, invited me to a private party during…

  • This is one for the guys out there… Especially guys that might be having trouble making those connections with women… How do you get the attention of these fascinating creatures? How do you stand out from the seemingly endless crowd of other single guys out there? Well – DON’T SEND DICK PICS FOR ONE!!!!!!!! This…

  • This is a story I heard on a podcast many years ago.. And I think it directly reflects one of the many issues surrounding body-image issues that exist in our culture… So – in the early 2000’s there were magazines in Australia that catered for “Blokes”… Boofy, boozy, bogan Bloke’s… “People”, “Picture” & later “Zoo”…

  • Having become single later in my life, and finding this lifestyle, one thing that continually frustrates me is the assumption that women become less attractive as they get older… I have recently become to realise – not having lived as a woman – that by the time a lady reaches her 50’s, she’s been subjected…

  • Well, what do you say? I’m a man, middle 50’s, coming to terms with being single after a 30yr vanilla marriage ended about 4 years ago… Luckily for me I found the Swinging Lifestyle (Yes – I know some people don’t like that term!) and have learnt so much about life, others and myself that…